January 1, 2022: My love/hate relationship with New Years

I have never been a new year’s kind of girl: parties too late, resolutions too unrealistic. Just setting myself up for disappointment, it seems. But this year is different: extreme sadness for the unnecessary loss of 824,000 Americans from covid and yet optimism in regaining my strength and endurance after two total hip replacement surgeries. It’s definitely been a year of highs and lows, but always filled with gratitude. I am vaccinated, boosted, masking, distancing and oh so careful. I can have a few friends over at a time who have behavior patterns similar to mine, but Mother Nature is always here to thrill me and teach me new lessons.

The holidays began with a Christmas cake to celebrate the publication of my book DEVOTION: Diary of an Appalachian Garden. My friend and editor Sue Wasserman commissioned the cake by a dear friend Simone Travisano. Oh what a work of art that tasted incredible! I shared the cake with as many people as I could and there are two pieces in the freezer waiting for some special moment. Coconut, lemon and raspberry are the most delightful combinations.

A cake with edible orchids, crafted by Sweet Simones in Burnsville, NC
Seriously the most fabulous cake ever!

I set a personal goal to walk three miles unassisted by December 31. That did not come to pass and yet I am proud of every step, every minute on my stationary bicycle and even my return to gentle yoga with Hannah Levin on Facebook. I am seeing the promise even in the disappointment.

A year-end hike with views to celebrate.

We have been in the 60’s for days on end. The plants at Devotion are about a month ahead of schedule. Tomorrow, 20 degree weather returns, so I trust Mother Nature will protect what she can. Here is my walk through Devotion this morning.

Jasmine nudiflorum…great cover for the birds once the temperatures drop to winter normal
Hardy geranium ‘Biokovo’ still wearing her Christmas red
Camellia ‘Margie’ becoming…
Edgeworthia chrysantha already scenting my garden paths
Daphne getting ready to bloom and fill the courtyard with scent, a lovely gift from Elizabeth Brown, a gardener who truly inspires me
The cold weather is coming and this will keep me company as I snuggle under the new throw knitted by my dear friend Linda Kane
Friendship so beautifully expressed

I wish for everyone time outdoors, whether walking or gardening. And I share Emily Dickinson’s poem as a reminder for us all:

“If I can stop one heart from breaking, I shall not live in vain; If I can ease one life the aching, Or cool one pain, Or help one fainting robin Unto his nest again, I shall not live in vain.”

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